{"id":3388,"date":"2014-02-28T04:30:53","date_gmt":"2014-02-28T02:30:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/openasia.org\/en\/?p=3388"},"modified":"2014-08-22T13:18:09","modified_gmt":"2014-08-22T11:18:09","slug":"shakila-ibrahimkhalil-we-have-fought-too-hard-for-our-freedoms-to-lose-them-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/openasia.org\/en\/2014\/02\/shakila-ibrahimkhalil-we-have-fought-too-hard-for-our-freedoms-to-lose-them-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Shakila Ibrahimkhalil: \u201cWe have fought too hard for our freedoms to lose them again\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Shakila Ibrahimkhalil is an Afghan journalist. During the time of the Taliban, she was forced to withdraw from her journalism studies and get married. Four years later, she suffered the loss of her husband. Today, she works as a journalist for Moby Group, the largest media company in Afghanistan, where she has been working for the past seven years.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/openasia.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/23-shakila-ebrahim-khil.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3389 aligncenter\" alt=\"23 - shakila ebrahim khil\" src=\"https:\/\/openasia.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/23-shakila-ebrahim-khil.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"553\" srcset=\"https:\/\/openasia.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/23-shakila-ebrahim-khil.jpg 500w, https:\/\/openasia.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/23-shakila-ebrahim-khil-217x300.jpg 217w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<strong>Can you share with us some memories of times when your rights have been violated and how they have influenced your life?<\/strong><br \/>\nUnder the Taliban\u2019s rule, I was denied the right to study and although I was very young, my family forced me to marry. When my husband was killed, his family pulled my children out of kindergarten: they didn\u2019t think I should be studying and working. Fortunately, following mediation by my family and the elders, they returned my children to me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What are some important achievements in Afghanistan since the time of the Taliban?<\/strong><br \/>\nFreedom of speech and the media; the presence of women in the media, in schools, and in other educational facilities; representation of women in the Parliament; the free movement of young people in the city: these are all important achievements. Such things were unimaginable 12 years ago. Human rights institutions that enable women to raise their voices are also very important.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What gives you hope for the future?<\/strong><br \/>\nThe media in Afghanistan is making an impact on the government, and on the world: this is a big change. Seeing the faith people put in the media makes me thoroughly appreciate my work. The Sahar Gul affair, the tortured Afghan child bride, is a clear example of a story that captured the attention of the international media and created a build-up of pressure to protect her rights.<br \/>\nAlso, although there are a host of related problems and challenges, the holding of elections is a new phenomenon in Afghanistan.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What is your worst fear today?<\/strong><br \/>\nMy biggest fear is to lose the gains we have made. I am also afraid of going back to civil war. We have made so much progress and I am afraid to lose it: children going to school, young people studying and playing sport, women working. We have fought too hard for our freedoms to lose them again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What are the three biggest challenges facing Afghanistan?<\/strong><br \/>\nThe first challenge is insecurity. The second is the absence of the rule of law and lack of access to justice for women. The third issue is administrative corruption, which heightens insecurity and injustice. Reprehensible traditions and customs, which prohibit girls from studying and treat women as the \u2018second sex\u2019 must not be forgotten. In some regions, men do not even allow women to go to the doctor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Would today\u2019s Afghanistan allow schools to once again be closed to girls and women excluded from social participation?<\/strong><br \/>\nThe people of Afghanistan would never allow it. But things could be different if we go back to war.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Can you tell us about any specific occasions where the human rights of a female family member or friend were violated?<\/strong><br \/>\nI have a close friend who was pregnant. A few months ago, her relationship with her husband seriously deteriorated. The husband\u2019s family wanted her to abort her child; they had already taken away her other child. The family wanted a divorce between my friend and her husband. The problem was finally resolved, but only through the mediation of my family and I.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Which factors hinder women&#8217;s participation in social, economic, political and cultural spheres?<\/strong><br \/>\nGovernments in Afghanistan have always used women as symbolic tools. Women who work on the High Council of Peace and as Commissioners on the Independent Elections Commission do not have real power to make decisions. There is not a single female judge on the Supreme Court.<br \/>\nFurthermore, women do not have access to justice. Reprehensible traditions and customs, the rebellion of armed insurgents against the government, the absence of the rule of law and the lack of access to justice for women prevents progress on women\u2019s rights.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What solutions do you see for advancing women\u2019s rights in Afghanistan?<\/strong><br \/>\nWomen must have the right to make their own decisions, wherever they are. The president has two vice presidents. One of them should be a woman, and a woman who has the power to make decisions. People who perpetrate violence against women should be brought to justice before the courts and punished. Women should have more access to education and more employment opportunities should be created through programmes of affirmative action.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What do you wish for your daughter?<\/strong><br \/>\nI hope that she will be able to become a doctor \u2013 that is what I wished for when I was a child.<br \/>\nI wish that we lived in a peaceful and safe environment, where my daughter and other girls could study and achieve their goals.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What have you done in your personal and professional life to fight against discrimination?<\/strong><br \/>\nThere is no discrimination in our family. I studied and I worked, even when I had children. When I see women I am close to experiencing problems, I always try to intervene and help to resolve their problems in a way that respects their rights. In my work as a journalist, I have sought to highlight the importance of women in society.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a specific message to share with the world?<\/strong><br \/>\nWe are on the eve of the presidential election. My message to women is that they should participate in the elections and make use of their right to vote. I ask my brothers to respect the right of women to vote just like men, and to choose their own candidates. I ask all the candidates \u2013 regardless of who is elected president \u2013 to work for security and stability for women, to fulfil their election promises, and to serve the people of Afghanistan.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>&#8220;Unveiling Afghanistan, the Unheard Voices of Progress&#8221; is a campaign by\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/openasia.org\/\" target=\"_hplink\">Armanshahr<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.fidh.org\/en\/\" target=\"_hplink\">FIDH<\/a>, which explores views held by Afghan civil society actors. Over 50 days, 50 influential social, political, and cultural actors hope to spark conversation and debate about building a society that is inclusive of women&#8217;s and human rights in Afghanistan.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Follow 50 interviews \u00a0drawn from the &#8220;Unveiling Afghanistan campaign&#8221; daily on the<a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/unveiling-afghanistan\/shakila-ibrahimkhalil-we_b_4874529.html\">\u00a0Huffington Post<\/a>.<\/strong><br \/>\n<b>Follow Unveiling Afghanistan on FIDH Twitter:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.twitter.com\/fidh_en\">www.twitter.com\/fidh_en<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shakila Ibrahimkhalil is an Afghan journalist. During the time of the Taliban, she was forced to withdraw from her journalism studies and get married. 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