{"id":9496,"date":"2018-06-15T06:57:42","date_gmt":"2018-06-15T04:57:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/openasia.org\/en\/?p=9496"},"modified":"2018-06-15T06:57:42","modified_gmt":"2018-06-15T04:57:42","slug":"i-couldnt-even-scream-survival-and-abuse-inseparable-for-kabul-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/openasia.org\/en\/2018\/06\/i-couldnt-even-scream-survival-and-abuse-inseparable-for-kabul-children\/","title":{"rendered":"‘I couldn’t even scream’: survival and abuse inseparable for Kabul children"},"content":{"rendered":"

The Guardian<\/a>\u00a0-For 14-year-old Ahmed*, life as a kid on the streets of the Afghan capital has become synonymous with abuse.<\/p>\n

His voice calm and unwavering, Ahmed reels off stories of the assaults he has suffered over the years. \u201cOne day, a man asked me to buy him a pack of chewing gum. I went out and bought it, and took it back to his house,\u201d Ahmed tells me in a dimly-lit apartment he shares with his family. \u201cHe then forced me inside his home and raped me.\u201d\u00a0<\/em>It happened two years ago, but his stories go back to when he was five years old.<\/p>\n

After the first time he was sexually assaulted, Ahmed tried to be more careful, avoiding quiet areas and trying not to travel anywhere alone. But one day, when his brothers were not around to protect him, three teenage boys followed him to a Kabul backstreet, and took turns raping him. This became a regular occurrence but he felt he couldn\u2019t tell anyone \u2013 especially not his family. Ahmed feared his family would be ashamed of him if they knew; he didn\u2019t want to be the one who let them down.<\/p>\n

Kabul is heaving with street children like Ahmed, impoverished boys and girls who are sent out by their families to work or beg. They snake through the city\u2019s congested traffic, trying to clean car windscreens or peddle trinkets. They are are often subject to abuse by male drivers, especially taxi drivers.<\/p>\n

After nearly 40 years of conflict,\u00a0poverty<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0violence<\/a>\u00a0is rife in Afghanistan. Since Nato-led troops ended their conflict mission four years ago, the poorly equipped Afghan forces have struggled with an\u00a0emboldened Taliban<\/a>\u00a0and the new task of trying to contain an Islamic State insurgency.<\/p>\n

In this environment, education is seen as secondary to earning money. Many children skip school so they can work to support their families. In central Kabul, children as young as three are dotted about the chaotic urban landscape, dwarfed by the enormous mounds of fruit for sale on their wooden crates, or polishing men\u2019s shoes.<\/p>\n

Street children are forced to brave violent sexual predators in the Afghan capital as they struggle to earn money.\u00a0Lahla, 10, was forced to work on the streets after her father was killed three years ago. Wearing a long dress and plastic purple sandals that had seen better days, Lahla\u2019s skin is burned by the sun, evidence of her long days spent on the streets.<\/p>\n

Her father, a farmer, was killed on his way home when Taliban insurgents and Afghan government troops were locked in a bloody battle. Her meagre earnings from begging support her mother, sister and brother-in-law.<\/p>\n

On a recent day in Kabul, Lahla sits near busy restaurants hoping passersby will give her a five or 10 Afghani note, worth about the same value in British pence. She watches as scores of schoolgirls pass by in their black and white uniforms. Lahla has never been to school.<\/p>\n

Not long ago, a man promised to give her money if she led him behind the restaurant where she sat. Lahla agreed. There, he began kissing and groping her. She was powerless to stop it. \u201cI was shocked, and my heart was beating so fast. I couldn\u2019t even scream, my voice was lost because I was scared if someone saw that this guy, they would blame me,\u201d Lalah says. \u201cAfterwards, I felt so sick \u2013 I even got sick \u2013 but I couldn\u2019t tell my mother why.\u201d<\/p>\n

Approximately 2 million children work on the streets across the country, with\u00a01.2 million<\/a>\u00a0of them doing hard labour, according to the Ministry of Labour, Social Affairs, the Martyrs and Disabled. While the majority work in Kabul, street children also work in large cities across the country, including Herat in the west and Balkh in the north.<\/p>\n

There are no official statistics for how many Afghan street children are abused, but anecdotal evidence and social activists suggest it is rampant.<\/p>\n

Zabi, another 14-year-old boy who has spent half his life on the streets selling plastic bags, says he cannot think of a single street child who has not been assaulted. He says taxi drivers, shopkeepers and even male university students are perpetrators. Zabi\u2019s eyes filled with tears as he recalled how, four years ago, a group of older boys pushed him in the Kabul river and took turns raping him. Zabi went straight to the police, and the boys were arrested. When Zabi\u2019s father discovered what had happened, he blamed Zabi for shaming the family.<\/p>\n

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\u201cViolence is an accepted form of punishment in most households, and children get used to it,\u201d said Najib Akhlaqi, head of the ministry\u2019s child protection action network. \u201cThe children don\u2019t just accept it, they expect it.\u201d He says the ministry receives phone calls from concerned passersby on a regular basis. When the network dispatches police to the scene, the children often deny they are harassed, fearful that admitting it could invite more abuse later on.<\/p>\n

Under the\u00a0Elimination of Violence Against Women<\/a>\u00a0law, those who abuse women and children are liable for jail terms and cash fines. The children are then taken to social care centres. But rights defenders say\u00a0the law is not being fully enforced<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Akhlaqi says the government is developing a system that will enable coordination with organisations supporting children in\u00a0Afghanistan<\/a>. Currently, only 10 organisations work under the government\u2019s supervision.<\/p>\n

Fayazuddin Amini, from the juvenile detention centre, says most incidents of sexual harassment are not reported. When they are, police pass the case to Afghanistan\u2019s attorney general, who ensures criminals are punished according to the\u00a0Afghan penal code<\/a>\u00a0and the\u00a0juvenile code<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Amini says there are many children under 18 who abuse, rape or sexually harass other children and get sent to juvenile detention and rehabilitation centres by the court. Once these criminals finish their term, the government doesn\u2019t keep track of them. Sometimes the Ministry of Education will enrol them back into government-run schools. Although there are no official statistics, there have been many incidences of reoffending.<\/p>\n

According to the Ministry of Finance, more than 60 organisations, both national and international, work for children in Afghanistan. Other unregistered groups also operate.<\/p>\n

Abdul Baqi Samandar, for example, opens his home to about 300 children to learn crafts and study with the help of 30 teachers. Samandar pays each teacher \u00a330 a month, with donations gathered from friends abroad.<\/p>\n

Samandar, who is in his mid-60s, says the only true way to help Afghan children is to educate them \u2013 by whatever means necessary. \u201cI don\u2019t understand the families who do not let their children get free education,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n

* All names of children have been changed<\/p>\n

Pariwash Gouhari<\/em>\u00a0is a member of\u00a0Sahar Speaks<\/a>, a programme providing training, mentoring and publishing opportunities for Afghan female journalists<\/em><\/p>\n

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